I dreamed about my mother again last night. This was the most detailed dream so far. I was with her friends mourning her death. We were at some kind of festival with free deserts and seafood all around.... all the stuff my mom would have liked. Anyway... Mary, Re, George, Susan, Dad, and Ladona were all comforting each other. Somehow the whole process brought my mother back. At one point I was walking with her at a brisk pace and telling her how incredibly happy I was she was back again and that I had missed her terribly and felt so bad that I hadn't been there for her in the way she needed. I asked her if she had been mad at me and she nodded in affirmation. When I asked what she had been angry with me for... she said it was nothing that amounted to anything. I guessed it meant that it didn't make sense for her to be angry at me, but that she had those feelings anyway. I hugged her tight and told her I loved her sooooo much. After the festival we were all in Dad's truck and headed back home with mom. Dad missed a tight curve and ran the truck into the bank, but we were all OK. He was just needing a tow truck to get us out. A vehicle from the festival came and got us out of the truck. While we were sitting in the rescue vehicle, I was given a cheesecake tart that was out of this world good. At one point in the dream... some man showed up that claimed he was my father's father. He was a rather young man with close shaved head, very tall, and somewhat overweight. I have no idea who that was... he didn't look like anyone I know.
I lost my mother last month and had my first dream about her this morning. It went something like this:
We were at the old house in Baton Rouge and in my former bedroom. Mom asked me what stuff I thought we should move from there... and I told her everything. She asked me to pack the room for her. She was about to leave to go on an errand and I grabbed her and hugged her and wept. She wasn't sad like me and seemed somewhat indifferent to my tears. I knew she had to go. I considered calling the police to make sure she was OK, but instead turned to go back into the room and pack the stuff.